Hello My Beautiful Queen,
Welcome to the third week of January. Not that time really matters here, but you get the point. I have been deep in my own spiritual journey which is to say that I hit my upper limit and I am digging through the dredges of my shadow. Because the thing about choosing to be the creator of your reality is also acknowledging that you must take responsibility for your own internal world and how your subconscious mind may be influencing your external one. For example, if your desire and intention is to build a youtube channel, but subconsciously you don't believe that you are the kind of person that people gravitate towards, then you are going to encounter some issues in your reality.
The same is true if you do not trust your decisions. Queen, building anything will require you to make decisions. Manifestation requires you to make decisions about what you want. But if deep down you believe that you do not know how to support yourself or you doubt that you know what you want, then you are going to struggle with it in your reality because this is what you believe. If you don't believe you can make decisions that support you, then you will struggle because you will doubt every decision that you make and whether or no they are truly supporting you in getting closer to your dreams.
The thing is that you are never going to know if the decisions that you make are the right ones. You are not going to know if it is moving you closer to your goals. You are not going to know what the outcome is. But I can for sure tell you that if you do not make any decision at all, then you will stay exactly where you are. So many people get caught in this story of I don't know where to start.
In my journey I have studied countless entrepreneurs and had the opportunity to interview many of them on my podcast. Let me tell you that no one knew where to start, they just started. Part of that is developing your connection with your intuition and yourself. Having that faith that you are supported in your journey and that you will always make the best decisions you can with the information that you have. The other part of that is just curiosity and determination to make it happen.
You are not going to know where your decisions will lead you. But you must be willing to start somewhere. You must move in faith that what you want is meant for you and you have everything you need to make it happen if you can just convince yourself to start. And if you have no freaking idea how to develop that kind of self-belief, I recommend that you start with a coach or some kind of guide.
If you don't start you are pandering to your ego and allowing decision paralysis to completely destroy your dreams. Queen, your dreams don't deserve that. When we refuse to start it can be easy to justify why we don't. We say things like I don't have the money (you can start a business for free. If it's product based, then you can build an audience and a brand identity for free to get started), or that we don't know where to start. But in my experience as a coach and in my own life, fear is the root of this hesitation, no matter what story it is telling you.
So you have to ask yourself, what is this really about? What am I afraid of? What do I not want to have confirmed (that is a huge one). Take a moment and ask yourself what is one thing I can do right now to get started?
Much Love Always,
Shar