I want to talk to the queen who is looking around her life
and thinking, this can’t be all there is.
Today, I want to talk to the queen who knows that she is meant for so
much more. You just know that this isn’t what you’re supposed to do. You can
feel it in your bones that you are meant for so much more. But, what exactly
does that more look like? What is that you do want and how the heck are you
supposed to get there? And what do you do if you really have no idea what that
more is and what it looks like?
This is exactly the way my thoughts looked when
I first accepted that the life I was currently living was not the life I was
supposed to live. When I first decided that I was meant for more, it was both
inspiring and little hard. Inspiring because I knew this was the start of my
journey. Hard because it felt like the gap between where I was and where I felt
I could be was so wide and I didn’t know how the heck I would get there. PS
queen I learned that the how is not your business and you will always be on the
right path because you will get the call to do something when you are meant to
do it.
So, where do you start when you are completely lost and just
know that you are looking for more? Start with taking a look around your life
and listing all of the shit that makes you fucking miserable. Your emotions
often serve as your compass and are your que of if you are in alignment or not
(read more about what it means to be in alignment and how to use your emotions
to propel yourself forward). If something feels like complete and utter shit,
then babe, it is not in alignment with your highest calling. That’s why it feels
like shit. Your spirit knows that you are doing something that is not aligned
with the life you are meant to live. It’s your cue that you are living far
below your potential and letting your egoic fears run the show.
Now, you may be thinking to yourself, but I don’t want to
make this list. Isn’t focusing on all of the things I hate really bad for
manifestation? Shouldn’t I be grateful for what I have and focus on that? Yes,
queen, you should focus on the positive things and find gratitude. But finding gratitude
for what you have doesn’t mean that you are ungrateful for wanting more. In
fact, it’s the opposite. You are showing gratitude to the universe by pursuing
the desires that were planted in your heart.
And making this list will actually help you with
manifestation because it will allow you to release the feelings that these
things that fucking suck have trapped in your subconscious mind (where the
manifestation begins). AND by giving you clarity on what it is that you really
want by following the clues that your emotions have left you. With
manifestation the clearer you are, the more tapped in you are and the better
you will be at manifesting it. If you want more tips about manifestation, I
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If you’re just starting your journey and are thinking that
you are meant for more, but don’t know what that more looks like, start with
the things that you don’t enjoy about your life. In most cases, you want its
opposite.
Example from my life when I was first starting my journey
I hate that I am so scared of money and I’m
tired of struggling to pay my bills.
What do I really want?
To be financially free and have a good relationship
with money. I want to be able to spend money and enjoy life without worrying
about if I can pay rent now. I want financial abundance.
Take a good look at your life and make that list. Release
any judgment as you do this and let me know how this goes.
Much Love, Always,
Shar