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Happy Friday! I am getting over what I hope was a cold and not strep throat. I finally reached a point where I truly felt comfortable with my vision and mission. I have built my business and success completely from a place of flow. I truly do not believe that hard work is the true secret to success and wealth. And I am here to help you create your success from a well-balanced place. I am here to show you that it can be as easy as you allow it to be. We all know plenty of people who work harder than anyone else we know and still struggle financially. Plus let's not promote the narrative that people are poor because they don't work as hard as others.
Before you get your pitchforks out, I am not saying that if you are successful, you did not work hard for it. But I am saying that your hard work alone is not the reason you are successful. You had to have believed you could do it, been brave enough to fail and try again, and actually have had the courage to start. You have to have been willing to succeed and not been afraid of that success and what it means for you. Because if hard work was truly all it took, then everyone would be rich as fuck.
However, Babe, I am here to help you unlock the codes for your birthright to abundance--yes the law of abundance is a real thing. So many people have been told that the reason someone else has so much money and success is because they worked hard for it. That is what the patriarchy has conditioned you to believe and that is what capitalism has you perpetuate. Do you ever notice that people often say I worked really hard to get here out of some need to justify their success? You know, lest someone think they didn't earn it.
But when someone tells you they worked hard for the success they have and they do not actually tell you what they did, they shroud their success in mystery and so they close the door for acces. You don't know the strategies they used, the network they leveraged, the people they spoke to, the hours they worked, the energy they healed, the limiting beliefs the conquered, how many times they failed etc...
So you go out. You work hard, you promote yourself and you look around and ask what the fuck? Why isn't this working? Eventually, you give up and say this must not be meant for me. LOL, I don't think so, babe. Not on my watch. You have been taught that the masculine is more powerful and valuable than the feminine. That is why you go out and get but don't stop to receive it. That is why you try to force things to work, ignore your own needs, and just keep pushing, then have the nerve to call yourself lazy for valuing your own need for rest.
Queen, success is not just about getting. Success requires your ability to receive. And for you to receive you must believe both that you are worthy of your desire and that the accomplishment of your desire will not take anything away from you--more on that later. If you do not value your feminine energy (everyone has both and it has nothing to do with gender or gender identity), your intuition, and what you truly feel inspired to do, then you are not available to receive. The only place you're going to be running to is the ground. Even if you do manage to find some level of success by continuously pushing yourself, it won't be sustainable because you can't spend your life exhausted and stressed out. That's not what you want anyway.
I'm going to leave you with this. What you believe to be true is always going to be true for you. It will become part of your reality. If you believe that you must run yourself into the ground to be successful, then that is what it will take. If you believe that success can be fun and easy and you can be successful just by being yourself, then so it is.
Much Love, Always,
Shar
